Designing a Life That Fits: Why Aging in Place Starts Now
- Maria Nicholson
- May 20
- 3 min read
“You don’t wait for the storm to come before building the roof.”
When it comes to preparing for aging, most people don’t think about it until it’s too late.
We get the call—Mom fell in the bathroom. Dad left the stove on again. Your spouse’s knees can no longer handle the stairs.Suddenly, we’re forced into fast, stressful decisions about moving, hiring help, or rearranging an entire home on short notice.
But what if we could get ahead of the crisis?
What if we treated our aging like what it really is—a stage we all deserve to plan for with dignity, not scramble through in fear?
That’s what aging in place is all about.And that’s why this conversation matters now.
Why Aging in Place Matters More Than Ever
Here’s the reality:
Over 90% of older adults want to stay in their homes for as long as possible.
But less than 10% of homes in the U.S. are aging-friendly—meaning safe, accessible, and adaptable.
And the cost of institutional care? It can exceed $100,000 a year.
As a Certified Aging-in-Place Specialist, I’ve worked with dozens of families who waited until after the emergency to make changes—when emotions were high and options were limited.
Let me be honest with you:The best time to start preparing your home isn’t when you need it.It’s before you need it.
What Does “Aging in Place” Really Mean?
It doesn’t mean turning your home into a hospital.It doesn’t mean giving up style or independence.
It means creating a space that works for you as your needs evolve—without sacrificing comfort, beauty, or joy.
Here are a few of the most impactful (and often simple) changes:
✅ Induction stoves to prevent fire hazards from forgotten burners
✅ More drawers in lower cabinets for ease over bending or reaching
✅ Recessed lighting to avoid floor lamps and tripping hazards
✅ Non-slip flooring like cork, low-pile carpet, or vinyl planks with fall detection tech
✅ Comfort-height toilets and curbless showers with slip-resistant floors
✅ Towel bars and grab bars that are secure and within easy reach
✅ Wide doorways and lever-style handles instead of knobs
Modern design for aging in place doesn’t look institutional anymore. It looks smart. Sleek. Stylish. Safe.
And it’s one of the most powerful investments you can make in your future.
The Promise I Made—and Why I’ll Never Forget It
After my mother passed from complications of a fall, I made a promise.
That I would dedicate my life to helping other families avoid the heartbreak we experienced. That I would advocate for better environments, better planning, and better tools to help people stay where they feel most alive—home.
That promise became part of my mission.And that mission became The Sageful Life.
💡 Start Small, Start Smart
You don’t need a full home remodel to get started.
Even a few thoughtful updates can dramatically improve safety and peace of mind. And if you ever do invest in a full renovation?It often pays for itself—far less than the cost of long-term care facilities.
Don’t wait for a fall, a fracture, or a health scare to think about these things.
If you or a loved one is over 50, the time is now. Not because something’s wrong… but because you deserve to feel prepared, empowered, and protected in your own space.
Free Resource: The Ultimate Aging-in-Place Checklist
Want to know where to begin?
Download our FREE “Aging in Place Checklist” with expert-backed tips for making your home safer, smarter, and senior-ready.
And listen to Episode 10 of The Sageful Life Podcast to learn more about my journey into aging-in-place design and the affordable upgrades that can change lives.
Design the Life That Fits You
You don’t have to downsize your life to fit your age.You can design a life that fits your future—beautifully, safely, and intentionally.
Aging doesn’t mean letting go.It means letting in new ways to thrive.
Welcome to the age of possibility.




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